Helping Couples Rebuild Intimacy and Restore Desire
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Sexless Marriage Therapy & Intimacy Counselling
Has sexual intimacy in your relationship become a problem?
Maybe you still love each other but feel more like roommates. Maybe one of you craves sexual intimacy but the other would rather avoid it. Every time you try to talk about it, it ends up in conflict or withdrawal. One of you feels pressure. The other feels frustrated and resentful. Maybe you’ve started to wonder if this is how it’s going to be forever.
It doesn’t have to be.
Our services
How We Help Couples Rebuild Intimacy
A sexless marriage, mismatched desire, or emotional disconnection. We’ll help you work out what’s gone wrong, and how to get back on track. Work with Laura and her team online internationally or in person in Somerset.
Relationship
Counselling
Support for your relationship with solution-focused counselling. Work through conflict, improve communication, and rebuild trust and intimacy. Sessions either online or in Somerset.
1-Day Couples
Intensives
A one-day couples intensive for couples who feel stuck or in crisis. Six focused hours to understand what’s gone wrong, break unhelpful patterns, and create a clear plan for recovery.
ONLINE
COACHING
Flexible online therapy you can access from anywhere in the world. Get clarity, direction, personal agency and practical support with sessions booked at a time that suits your schedule.
Individuals
Counselling
One-to-one counselling for stress, anxiety, addiction, loss or major life changes. Online, or in person in Somerset.
ABOUT LAURA
Laura How is a relationship therapist. She specialises in sexless marriage, desire mismatch and couples who’ve become disconnected. She sees couples and individuals online all over the world, or in person in Somerset. Over 50,000 people watch her YouTube channel and the Love & Cherish podcast, where she shares practical tips about how to create a relationship you love being in.
APPROACH
Ask Laura a straight question and you’ll get a straight answer. Sessions aren’t open-ended chats with no end in sight. She wants to know what’s gone wrong, what keeps going wrong, and she’ll hold you accountable and guide you towards making the changes you need to. Clients say they like that she’s honest and they feel like she’s in their corner.
The team
Meet The Therapists
All of our therapists deliver the ‘Laura How’ approach. The same research-backed, solution-focused methodology featured in our YouTube content and podcast. All three specialise in sexless marriage, so whoever you choose, you’re in good hands. Laura mentors Marijke and Zac closely, so they work the same way she does. They each bring their own personality and experience, but the framework is the same. And you’ll stay with the same therapist from your first session to your last.
Click More Info to get to know them better, see their availability, and book your first session.
Zac Fine – Masculinity Therapist
Zac helps men who’ve lost their voice in their marriage to speak honestly, stop avoiding conflict, and act with confidence and integrity. He also works with couples where intimacy has become difficult, and with separated dads.
Session Fee: £144 per hour
Specialisms: Sexless Marriage, Men’s Issues, Confidence & Voice
Availability: Monday, Tuesday & Thursday
Laura How – Therapist & Coach
Laura works with couples where sex has become a difficult topic to discuss. She specialises in desire mismatch and couples who’ve become emotionally and sexually disconnected. She’s direct, honest and practical, and her focus is advocating for the relationship, never taking sides.
Session Fee: £240 per hour
Specialisms: Sexless Marriage, Desire Mismatch, Couples Intensives
Availability: Tuesday – Friday
Marijke Roberts – Integrative Counsellor
Marijke works with couples who are stuck blaming each other, have drifted apart, or where trust has been broken. Her focus is honesty, and each person owning their part. That’s usually what brings trust and closeness back. She also has extensive experience working with young people.
Session Fee: £144 per hour
Specialisms: Sexless Marriage, Couples, Self-Worth & Confidence
Availability: Monday – Tuesday
What our Clients Say
“Laura was our last hope as a couple. We were in such a bad place that we even fought on the way to our first session. Communication felt impossible. Laura met us in that space and helped us rebuild it. We now leave sessions feeling hopeful, understood, and more connected than we thought possible.”
Susan
“Initially we considered Laura to be our couples counsellor from the reviews, then after meeting with Laura for an initial chat, we knew that Laura would be our choice, based on how she just got what was going on for us so quickly and what needed to change for us to move forward in our relationship.”
Julie
“Couples counselling with Laura exceeded our expectations. She guided us with warmth, honesty, and empathy. We felt supported but also challenged in the right ways. The changes we made have strengthened our relationship, and we are truly grateful for the experience.”
Yanka
1-Day Couples Intensive
Is your marriage in crisis?
One focused day with Laura. The depth of 8–10 weekly sessions, with real momentum, and a personalised action plan to take home.
- Morning Discovery
- Afternoon Recovery
- Online or in Somerset
- Action plan within 7 days
Investment £2,250
Women-only community
The Good Wife Club
A warm, women-only community led by Laura How. Somewhere to learn what actually makes a marriage thrive.
Men-only community
The Good Husband Club
A warm, men-only community led by Laura How. Somewhere to learn what actually makes a marriage thrive.
Sexless Marriage
Desire Mismatch
Emotional Withdrawal
Betrayal & Trust
Rebuilding Intimacy
Getting Help
Asking for help when sex has become a problem in your marriage is awkward. Most couples put it off for years, and that just makes it worse. But it can turn around. With a bit of structure and a plan, we see couples find each other again all the time. Work with us online worldwide or in person in Somerset.
Ready to start?
Book a session with Laura, online worldwide or in person in Somerset.