Welcome to my blog. Here I share honest, no-nonsense writing about relationships, intimacy, and mental health. My goal is simple: to give you tools, insights, and encouragement you can use in real life.
What is ‘Emotional Safety’? If you’ve ever been told that sex should only happen when a woman feels “emotionally safe” — and wondered what that actually means — this is the clearest answer I can give you. Using my own…
Is Sex Optional in Marriage? Can you simply opt out of sex in a marriage and expect everything else to stay intact? In a sexually exclusive relationship, choosing not to have sex is not a neutral, individual decision. It affects…
Stay, Leave or Accept? Your Top Five Sexless Marriage Questions Answered My YouTube channel has generated over 26,000 comments, and the same questions keep appearing. Not because people aren’t thinking clearly, but because they’re stuck, and the questions they’re asking…
Why Parenthood Threatens Intimacy and What It Actually Takes to Choose Each Other Through It (Love and Cherish Podcast with Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts) Listen To the ‘Love & Cherish’ Podcast Sexless Marriage: Why It Happens and How to…
The Real Impact of Feminism on Marriage, Men, and Modern Relationships (with Carrie Gress) Podcast Interview with Carrie Gress Listen To the ‘Love & Cherish’ Podcast The Truth About Feminism Feminism is widely seen as a force for good. Most…
Sexless Marriage: What to Do When Your Wife Shows No Interest in Intimacy Many men in sexless marriages are told their wife “just doesn’t feel like it” or “needs more emotional connection,” yet nothing changes over time. This pattern of…
Why improving emotional connection doesn’t always fix a sexless marriage When intimacy disappears in a marriage, couples are almost always given the same advice: improve communication, rebuild emotional connection, and the sex will return naturally. (Sometimes that works.) But many…
Why Married Women Lose Sexual Desire, And What To Do About It Laura How is a UK relationship therapist specialising in sexless marriage and female sexual desire in long-term relationships. If you love your husband but have lost your desire…
Common Myths About Female Desire in Marriage Laura How is a UK relationship therapist specialising in sexless marriage and female sexual desire in long-term relationships. Wife doesn’t want sex? In a sexless marriage and looking for answers? You’re probably blaming…
The Linguistic Trap About Sex in Marriage If you’ve ever been told that sex isn’t a real need in marriage, you’re not alone, and you’re not wrong to push back. In this post, I dismantle the myth that sexual intimacy…