Welcome to my blog. Here I share honest, no-nonsense writing about relationships, intimacy, and mental health. My goal is simple: to give you tools, insights, and encouragement you can use in real life.
Why Sex Won’t Just Happen in a Long Marriage A relationship therapist on why sex in marriage will not take care of itself. The myth of natural desire, the internal green light, and how to make sex a project that…
Why Love is not Enough in Marriage A relationship therapist’s ten rules for a marriage that lasts. Why love alone is not enough, and the marital code that separates the couples who thrive from the ones who fall apart. Laura…
Good Wife Club: Want a King? Act Like a Queen If your marriage has lost it’s spark, this article is for you. Not for marriages in real trouble, but for the ones that have become distant or low on intimacy.…
Why This Question Matters Intimacy after menopause is not over. It’s just changing form. How do you keep your marriage alive sexually through and after menopause? It’s the question I’m asked more than any other on my channel. And the…
Why Sexless Marriages Hurt So Much Sexless marriages are often dismissed as a minor inconvenience, but the peer-reviewed research tells a very different story. For men deprived of sex and affectionate touch in marriage, the consequences are measurable and serious:…
What It Actually Takes to Be Wife Material — From a Therapist & Wife Who Got Most of This Wrong If you’ve ever wondered what genuinely makes a woman wife material; not in the dated, performative sense, but in a…
What is ‘Emotional Safety’? If you’ve ever been told that sex should only happen when a woman feels “emotionally safe” — and wondered what that actually means — this is the clearest answer I can give you. Using my own…
Is Sex Optional in Marriage? Can you simply opt out of sex in a marriage and expect everything else to stay intact? In a sexually exclusive relationship, choosing not to have sex is not a neutral, individual decision. It affects…
Stay, Leave or Accept? Your Top Five Sexless Marriage Questions Answered My YouTube channel has generated over 26,000 comments, and the same questions keep appearing. Not because people aren’t thinking clearly, but because they’re stuck, and the questions they’re asking…
Why Parenthood Threatens Intimacy and What It Actually Takes to Choose Each Other Through It (Love and Cherish Podcast with Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts) Listen To the ‘Love & Cherish’ Podcast Sexless Marriage: Why It Happens and How to…