The Laura How Newsletter
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Honest help for your marriage, in your inbox on the 1st of every month.
A letter, not a round-up
Once a month I write to you properly. Not a list of videos you’ve already seen, but the things I’d tell you over a cup of tea: what I’m seeing in the therapy room, the research that’s changing how I think, the book on my bedside table, and a bit of what’s going on in our own marriage.
The big idea
The month’s most important topic, boiled down to what actually helps.
Worth knowing
Real research on sex, desire and marriage, in plain English.
What I’m reading
The book that’s shaping my thinking, and why it might matter to you.
Our news
A little of our own life. We’re a real couple, working at it too.
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Catch up on past issues. Click any one to read it in full.
August 2026When she has warmth for everyone but you
June 2026The 10 rules for marriage
May 2026A bad marriage is shortening your life
April 2026The science of rejection
February 2026Is sex a need?
January 2026Challenging modern feminism
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