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Workbooks, worksheets and check-ups to help you put what I teach into practice. All free.
Free help for your marriage
Reading about a better marriage is the easy part. Living it is where things change. So each of these takes something I teach and turns it into something you can actually do, on your own or together.
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For wives
Want Him Again
Why your desire faded, and how to bring it back, one week at a time. An eight-week workbook for women who miss wanting their husband.
Next step: 1-Day Intensive for Women
For you, or both of you
The Sexual Fitness Check-Up
20 questions to help you take better care of your sexual wellbeing and your marriage. See where you’re strong, and where you’ve let things slide.
Next step: 1-Day Intensive for Women or Couples Intensive
For couples
10 Rules for Marriage Workbook
All ten rules with an exercise and questions for each one, so you can stop reading about a better marriage and start building one together.
Next step: 1-Day Couples Intensive
For couples
Relationship Agreement
A template to fill in together. Tick the ideas you both like, add your own, and agree how you want your marriage to work.
Next step: 1-Day Couples Intensive
For couples
Reasonable Marriage Needs
A worksheet for the two of you. Each say what you need to feel loved, safe and connected, then make one shared list.
Next step: Couples Counselling
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Want help putting it into practice?
The downloads give you the knowledge. If you’d like help putting it into practice, this is how I can work with you.
1-Day Couples Intensive
One focused day together with me. The depth of 8–10 weekly sessions, and a personalised action plan to take home.
1-Day Intensive for Women
A day just for you, to understand what happened to your desire and build a plan to bring it back.
Counselling
Weekly sessions with me or my team, online worldwide or in person in Somerset. For couples or individuals.
Community
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Women-only community
The Good Wife Club
A warm, women-only community led by Laura How. Somewhere to learn what actually makes a marriage thrive.
Men-only community
The Good Husband Club
A warm, men-only community led by Laura How. Somewhere to learn what actually makes a marriage thrive.