Sexless Marriages, Gender Division & Attachment Dynamics (Love and Cherish Podcast with Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts) Listen To the ‘Love & Cherish’ Podcast In this first team episode of the Love and Cherish podcast, I’m joined by two therapists…
If you’re wondering what husbands actually want for Christmas, you’re not alone. For many men, the most meaningful gifts in marriage have very little to do with gadgets or novelty items, and everything to do with feeling desired, valued, and…
This article explores how parental intimacy, emotional closeness, and a strong marital bond shape children’s emotional security, mental health, and long-term wellbeing. Drawing on attachment theory and relationship research, it explains why connected parents raise more resilient children and why…
Many couples struggle with desire differences, sexual avoidance, and even sexless marriages. Sexual communal strength offers a research-backed way to rebuild intimacy, deepen emotional connection, and create a marriage that feels alive again. If you’ve ever felt confused about responsive…
If you are in a sexless marriage or a relationship where intimacy has quietly slipped away, this article will help you understand why it hurts so much and what it means for your husband. Many women don’t realise how deeply…
Many people search for “weaponising sex” because they’re stuck in a sexless marriage and trying to understand what’s really going on. The term gets thrown around online, but very few explanations are clear or accurate. In this article I break…
Sexless marriages are more common than most people realise, yet they remain one of the hardest issues for couples and therapists to address. Conversations about sex often get avoided, minimised, or deferred indefinitely, leaving resentment, disconnection, and confusion to grow.…
We all know sex tends to decline with age; that’s nothing new. But what’s happening now is different. Couples today are having far less sex than couples the same age just a generation ago⁽¹⁾. What used to be once a…
Editor’s Note: Updated August 2025 to cover more perspectives. If your wife no longer wants to have sex with you, it can feel like the bottom has dropped out of your marriage. Because for most men, sex is the primary…
Breaking The Anger Cycle & Rebuilding Intimacy FEMALE SEXUAL DESIRE IN LONG-TERM MARRIAGE If sex feels distant, pressured, or confusing, this is where to begin. In many sexless marriages, the issue is not simply frequency. It is a shift in…