How to Be a Good Wife
What It Actually Takes to Be Wife Material — From a Therapist & Wife Who Got Most of This Wrong If you’ve ever wondered what genuinely makes a woman wife material; not in the dated, performative sense, but in a…
Category Relationships
What Does Emotional Safety in Marriage Really Mean?
What is ‘Emotional Safety’? If you’ve ever been told that sex should only happen when a woman feels “emotionally safe” — and wondered what that actually means — this is the clearest answer I can give you. Using my own…
You Can’t Opt Out of Sex in Marriage
Choosing Not to Have Sex Is Not a Neutral Decision Can you simply opt out of sex in a marriage and expect everything else to stay intact? In a sexually exclusive relationship, choosing not to have sex is not a…
Your Biggest Sexless Marriage Questions Answered
Stay, Leave or Accept? Your Top Five Sexless Marriage Questions Answered My YouTube channel has generated over 26,000 comments, and the same questions keep appearing. Not because people aren’t thinking clearly, but because they’re stuck, and the questions they’re asking…
When Intimacy Disappears in Marriage, It’s Often Not a Communication Problem
Why improving emotional connection doesn’t always fix a sexless marriage When intimacy disappears in a marriage, couples are almost always given the same advice: improve communication, rebuild emotional connection, and the sex will return naturally. (Sometimes that works.) But many…
I Love My Husband But I Don’t Want Sex Anymore
Why Married Women Lose Sexual Desire, And What To Do About It Laura How is a UK relationship therapist specialising in sexless marriage and female sexual desire in long-term relationships. If you love your husband but have lost your desire…
5 Lies About Women & Sex That Are Destroying Your Marriage
Common Myths About Female Desire in Marriage Laura How is a UK relationship therapist specialising in sexless marriage and female sexual desire in long-term relationships. Wife doesn’t want sex? In a sexless marriage and looking for answers? You’re probably blaming…
Sex Is Not a Need? Why This Myth Is Destroying Marriages
The Linguistic Trap About Sex in Marriage If you’ve ever been told that sex isn’t a real need in marriage, you’re not alone, and you’re not wrong to push back. In this post, I dismantle the myth that sexual intimacy…
My Wife Is Addicted to Her Phone: Why It’s Killing Your Marriage and What to Do
Social Media Addiction in Marriage: Why Your Wife’s Screen Time Is Killing Your Relationship Phone addiction in marriage is a growing epidemic, with social media engineered to hijack attention through dopamine-driven comparison and relational content. If your wife spends more…
Podcast: Making Intimacy Sacred with Zac Fine & Marijke Roberts
Sacred Space, Reconnecting, & Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage (Love and Cherish Podcast with Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts) Listen To the ‘Love & Cherish’ Podcast In this second team episode of the Love and Cherish podcast, I’m again joined by…