Why Love is not Enough in Marriage A relationship therapist’s ten rules for a marriage that lasts. Why love alone is not enough, and the marital code that separates the couples who thrive from the ones who fall apart. Laura…
Good Wife Club: Want a King? Act Like a Queen If your marriage has lost it’s spark, this article is for you. Not for marriages in real trouble, but for the ones that have become distant or low on intimacy.…
Why This Question Matters Intimacy after menopause is not over. It’s just changing form. How do you keep your marriage alive sexually through and after menopause? It’s the question I’m asked more than any other on my channel. And the…
Why Sexless Marriages Hurt So Much Sexless marriages are often dismissed as a minor inconvenience, but the peer-reviewed research tells a very different story. For men deprived of sex and affectionate touch in marriage, the consequences are measurable and serious:…
What It Actually Takes to Be Wife Material — From a Therapist & Wife Who Got Most of This Wrong If you’ve ever wondered what genuinely makes a woman wife material; not in the dated, performative sense, but in a…
What is ‘Emotional Safety’? If you’ve ever been told that sex should only happen when a woman feels “emotionally safe” — and wondered what that actually means — this is the clearest answer I can give you. Using my own…
Choosing Not to Have Sex Is Not a Neutral Decision Can you simply opt out of sex in a marriage and expect everything else to stay intact? In a sexually exclusive relationship, choosing not to have sex is not a…
Stay, Leave or Accept? Your Top Five Sexless Marriage Questions Answered My YouTube channel has generated over 26,000 comments, and the same questions keep appearing. Not because people aren’t thinking clearly, but because they’re stuck, and the questions they’re asking…
Why improving emotional connection doesn’t always fix a sexless marriage When intimacy disappears in a marriage, couples are almost always given the same advice: improve communication, rebuild emotional connection, and the sex will return naturally. (Sometimes that works.) But many…
Why Married Women Lose Sexual Desire, And What To Do About It Laura How is a UK relationship therapist specialising in sexless marriage and female sexual desire in long-term relationships. If you love your husband but have lost your desire…